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The Legal Wife and the Mistress’ Rights as a Solo Parent

in Love and Relationships on 06/12/14

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I am glued to this tele-serye which will be ending in a couple of days.

The Legal Wife is Monica, a devoted wife and mother who decided to leave her husband, Adrian, after she finds out that Adrian’s mistress who happens to be her best friend is going to bear her husband’s child.

Read about >>>>= Common Legal Issues Faced By Solo Parents 

Annulment has been mentioned in the series.  This made me wonder what are the rights and legal issues a solo parent (the separada or the mistress) and child may encounter.

Legal Issues a Solo Parent and Child in the Philippines May Encounter:

Husband and Wife decided to separate.  A private arrangement for joint custody of the children has been agreed upon between the couple.  How can the Wife be sure that the Husband will not escape his duty and responsibility to the children?

If the wife is not sure if the husband will fulfill the private arrangement for joint custody, the best thing to do is to have the arrangement approved and recognized in court. So if ever the husband tries to evade his responsibility, the wife can always invoke the power of the court in enforcing the husband’s obligations found in the agreement.

I want my marriage annulled and I would like keep the house for me and my children.  Can I demand more than half of my share especially since I think that is perfectly fair for me and my children?


The husband can always demand for half of your conjugal properties which is his legal right and the court will need to consent unless there is a prenuptial agreement. You and your husband should discuss talk and agree on who gets which assets.

My daughter’s father never gave child support since I did not ask for it.  Can I demand for the three years’ worth of child support he failed to give?

The Family Code obliges parents to support all their children, whether they be legitimate or illegitimate.  It is a criminal offense under R.A. 9262 or the Anti-Violence Against Women and their Children Act to fail or refuse to give child support.You can demand for support in arrears only if you ask for it and the father obliged to provide child support fails to pay. If you demanded child support and the father fails to pay and you file an action in court which is resolved in your favor in 2018, the court can order your husband to pay support in arrears from the years 2014 to 2018 and while the child still needs it.
My ex-boyfriend claims that I am demanding too much for child support.  How does the law compute the amount for child support?
Child support is determined by two factors: the needs of the
child and the financial capacity of the giver. If your ex-boyfriend does not have a decent job, demanding a monthly child support of P5,000.00 may be too much, but if he is a billionaire, demanding for P100,000.00 as monthly child support may not be much.  Child support can change, depending on these two factors.Article 194 of the Family Code states that support comprises everything indispensable for sustenance: dwelling, clothing, medical attendance, education, and transportation.  Give your child’s father a breakdown of your monthly expenses so he can see how much money is really needed for raising your child.I discovered that my husband was married way before there was “us”.  Will our kids be considered illegitimate?  If I file for annulment, can I ask for child support?If the husband was married before you did, your marriage will be considered bigamous and therefore deemed void from the beginning. Your children will be considered illegitimate.  You can still demand for child support, though.  The Family Code provides that all acknowledged children, legitimate or illegitimate, are entitled to parental support until they are gainfully employed.

Make child support as one of the major issues once you file for annulment so you will be assured that the father will provide child support immediately.

I have an eight-year old son. My ex-boyfriend suddenly comes back and wants to be involved in raising our son.  Can he file for visitation rights?  Can the court let my eight-year old son decide how often his dad can see him?  Can the court compel him to choose who he wants to stay with?

It is a constitutional and natural right for parents to care for their children and to see to their upbringing and welfare.  If he files for visitation rights, the court will grant it unless you can prove that his visits will be detrimental to your child.  You can, of course, impose reasonable limitations on the time.

Under the law, single mothers enjoy sole parental authority over illegitimate children and therefore, the choice of a child who is over seven year old of age does not apply to this situation.  Your ex-boyfriend cannot make important decisions regarding your child and he cannot be granted custody unless he can prove that you are morally unfit to perform your duties as a mother to your child

My child’s dad refuses to have anything to do with our son.  Who will take care of him in case I die.  Can I appoint my mom as his next legal
guardian?
Parental authority can be transferred only in cases of adoption or guardianship.  Therefore, you cannot simply appoint a guardian for your child.  In case a parent dies, the surviving parent takes custody of the child.  But what if you guys have not been married?  If you are not married, you as the mother have sole custody of your child.  Your mom shall exercise substitute parental authority and if your mom is not able to take care of your child, your sibling or a substitute guardian over 21 years of age can be given custody as provided for under Article 216.If your ex-boyfriend decides to file custody, will need to prove his filiation to the child through a paternity test or other means.  The law will always give parental custody to the natural parent, but if your family can prove that he is an unsuitable father, he cannot be granted child custody even in your absence.
 I have a child from a previous relationship.  My husband wants to adopt him.  Do I really need to secure my ex-partner’s consent?
Your ex-partner’s consent is needed since it is a requirement under the law.  If you exerted earnest and diligent efforts to locate and contact the biological father and still cannot find or reach him, the written consent may be omitted.

My son is born out of wedlock, unacknowledged, and will follow my surname.  What about his middle name?  Can he use mine?

An unacknowledged illegitimate child can only use his given name and his mother’s surname.  As to giving your middle name to your child, the law does not provide such remedy.
My husband and I have been separated for ten years.  Will filing an annulment be easier?

 

The length of time you have been apart will not matter especially since the annulment will still be based on the same grounds.  The proceedings may be less emotional thought since both of you have been apart for long.  Also, the length of separation can be considered proof that you and your husband are better off separated.  The court will not grant a petition for annulment if it seems that the marriage was never given a change to work out,  Still, being separated for such a long time will not guarantee you that you will get your annulment.

 What’s the strongest case I can file against my ex so he will never bother us again?

If he abuses you or your child in any way, and you want to keep him from abusing you further, you can file for a protection under R.A. 9262.  The Protection Order will prohibit your partner from harrassing, bothering and communicating with you in any way.  It will order him to stay away from you and your family.  There is a list of grounds for filing a protection order, but you first need to prove to thu e court that the protection order is absolutely necessary.
Which is easier to apply for – Legal Separation or Annulment?

Legal Separation is easier in the sense that it will be granted on specific grounds: sexual infidelity, abandonment, physical abuse, or homosexuality of the other spouse.  An annulment of marriage is granted if you can prove that your spouse is psychologically incapacitated to perform the essential obligations of marriage.  Aside from the fact that psychological incapacity is hard to prove, the courts are stricter when it comes to annulment because the law favors the validity of marriage.

There is really no way to tell which one is easier because every case is different.  It would depend on the grounds you can prove and the outcome you would like to achieve.  If you are undecided, legal separation is best as it leaves the doors open for reconciliation.

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Comments

  1. cheekeegirl says

    June 13, 2014 at 6:04 am

    Very realistic teleserye. It does not encourage infidelity but it points out the wrong that one should avoid especially you are in a commitment.

  2. Marie Angeli Laxa says

    June 16, 2014 at 2:47 am

    This TV show caused a lot of sensation, didn't it? I'm ashamed to say I haven't watched even a single episode of it. However, I did find this article really informative. Thanks, Marie!

  3. kat says

    June 16, 2014 at 3:43 am

    I do not follow the series but I have witnessed the complications marital conflicts bring to a person's life. Sis, this is a good Q&A about the rights accorded by marriage.

  4. JanzCrystalz January says

    June 17, 2014 at 6:45 am

    The Legal Wife teleserye had ended, and honestly speaking in spite of the talks, the craze I haven't watch even a single episode. I do hope that the series did gave a good impression or lessons to the viewer. And thank you also for sharing some legal rights. 🙂

  5. Dominique Goh says

    June 18, 2014 at 8:42 am

    Interesting.. didn't know of all these provisions.. must be a very entertaining series to watch.

  6. Aileen A says

    June 18, 2014 at 12:11 pm

    Very useful information sis. But if you ask me, it's just soooooo complicated with all the legalities no? But sometimes, some people come to that point and they do ask these questions. As for the teleserye, I'm not tempted to watch. Too much drama, I think.

  7. Melgie Campbell says

    June 18, 2014 at 4:30 pm

    I never really watched the whole teleserye, kinda like bits and pieces here and there, Its very realistic and thank you for sharing the tips of a legal wife rights and exe's.:)

  8. Michelle Oribello says

    June 19, 2014 at 2:50 am

    oh yeah! we also used to watch this Teleserye, as in inaabangan!. Actually, just last monday our helper told me "nakakalungkot din na wla na Legal Wife noh,? kc parang parte n sya ng gabi nten" haha!
    It was definitely a very interesting series which thought us a lot about marriage and it's legalities.

  9. Mayette Domencil says

    June 19, 2014 at 3:52 am

    This became a hit since a lot of Filipino can relate. Thank you for these information sis. I find it helpful since I know many has gone through such situations and they must know their rights.

    Mommy Maye
    http://www.momaye.com

  10. Allan Domencil says

    June 19, 2014 at 8:15 am

    I watched the ending only of this teleserye.
    I've been hearing such issues when I am listening to Radyo5's Relasyon. About the rights of illegitimate child and its difference from legitimate ones.

  11. Melgie Campbell says

    June 19, 2014 at 12:38 pm

    Good points Sis, I learned things that I didn't know before. On the other hand, its sad to see the Legal Wife is over but its a good show although I didn't follow the whole teleserye.:)

  12. Ida JT says

    June 19, 2014 at 1:44 pm

    Unfortunately I am teaching at this time and can't watch this hit teleserye. My mom fills me in though and said that the ending was not as tragic as the others. May this also serve as an eye opener to all the mistresses. I'm sure there are many other single men out there.

  13. maria wenttotown says

    June 20, 2014 at 11:14 pm

    a lot have been glued to this drama that it flooded my facebook wall on with thoughts on the latest episode. Looks like it hit a nail!

  14. JanzCrystalz January says

    June 21, 2014 at 4:58 am

    Reading about the Legal Wife series, this made me want to download the whole series if available in the net. 🙂

  15. Rosegen Yeager says

    June 21, 2014 at 6:46 am

    We should have a divorce in Philippines maybe its less hassle and faster than annulment.

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